“Your task is not to seek for love, but merely to seek and find all
the barriers within yourself that you have built against it.” Rumi
Learn how to create and maintain the loving, authentic relationships you deserve.
Get Happy NOW! It is possible!
One of the key questions I hear is “How could so much love go so wrong?” Often marriages fail because of the entanglements within each partner’s family system and inherited patterns. Disappointments become accusations, and the path is open to blame, shame and guilt. The result is more alienation and less understanding. But..there are always solutions to find.
♥ Something is not comfortable in your marriage or relationship but you’re not sure what to do. By taking action in choosing to learn and grow, you will find that more happiness and harmony with yourself and in your relationship will emerge.
♥ My methods can very quickly change the relationship dynamics in your personal life. Often divorce is not necessary, because you will find that insights within deeper layers, inherited patterns and unknown entanglements shift to create a better understanding and connection. Love is flowing again.
♥ Most people haven’t been raised in loving environments. What you don’t have, you cannot give. Healing of the past wounds, learning respectful, authentic communication is key and something that everyone is able to do. Today we have the privilege that we can CHOOSE and thus HONOR our need to have relationships with the quality and depth we desire. It only requires to take action.
“Carla’s Counseling sessions are profound and cutting through the chaff, getting to the heart of the matter. She helped us to focus on our love rather than our past relationship baggage, and now, years later, we are still happily together!” ~M.P. Boynton Beach
♥ get clarity and awareness
♥ communicate more effectively
♥ heal your baggage trap
♥ be heard and understood
♥ find hope and solutions
Every class Carla will share one of the Secrets of Loving Relationships.
This is an interactive class where we practice Carla’s Communication model partially based on “Nonviolent Communication.”
Is this you:
- Tired of conflicts with your spouse or at work?
- Wanting to get your needs met in any relationship?
- Ready to learn to resolve conflicts peacefully AND effectively?
- Wanting to speak authentically from the heart AND being heard?
- Loving to live with more compassion and empathy for self and others?
Then join us and in practicing and working with a 5 steps communication model that is life-changing!
Bring your questions!
“More than a year ago, I visited Carla with questions about whether or not to stay in my marriage. Through a fascinating technique using “footprints,” I came to the awareness that my marriage was still an anchor for me; I was not yet ready to move on. When the time came to make this life change, Carla gently saw me through several phases that followed. She guided me through the resentment, anxiety about me and my children’s future, and supported both me and my ex in establishing a peaceful, positive relationship. While it may not be a fairy-tale ending, it is a happy one and I thank Carla immensely for her work and support.” ~Donna R. Palm Beach
“You are a rare example of expertise and humanity in a perfect balance. This makes your work compassionate and effective. It is a gift from the universe to work with you. A night mare became a journey. Thank you Carla. You are special and you know what I mean. ” ~ Alessandra A. Boca Raton, Fl.
“My Life Is about My Relationships… You will never find yourself in a point in time when the subject of relationships is not an active part of your now experience, for everything you perceive or notice or know is because of your relationship with something else. Without a comparative experience, you would be unable to perceive or focus any kind of understanding within yourself. Therefore, it is accurate to say that without relationships you could not exist at all.”
Some quotes and thoughts about LOVE….
“Romance is set apart from all other forms of love by the intensity of bliss. Bliss is natural to life, but once we cover it over, we must search for it in others. The pain for yearning is a mask for the ecstasy of bliss. Bliss is not a feeling but a state of being. In the state of bliss, everything is loved.”
A ‘perfect coming-together vow’ from ‘Abraham’ Hicks
“ Hello, friend. We are here as co-creators. And it is my expectation as we move forward in this relationship (or marriage) that both of us will find ourselves satisfied in every way that is possible. It is m y desire to discover who I am and who you are. But most important to me is that I be happy so that I may inspire happiness in you.
I do not take your life as my responsibility. I take my life as my responsibility. And I am looking forward to a very good time here. I am anticipating that as we move forward to a very good time here. I am anticipating that as we move forward in this life together, we will have the ultimate of all positive experiences-because that is what I intend to look for. As long as we are having a good time, let us stay together. And if we should stop having a good time, let us separate–either in thought or in physical-ness–until negative do us part……..”