PARENT

Conscious, Purposeful Parenting means:

Peaceful interaction with your children and family

Acknowledge the child for who (s)he really is

Respect your child, (s)he will respect you in return automatically

Eliminate fear and stress-thinking, give boundaries & guidance

Negate negative thoughts, focus on positive energy, what you focus on expands

Trust your children, what you send out you'll get back

CHILD

The result of Conscious, Purposeful Parenting is a Happy Child who is:

Compassionate & Cooporative

Honoring Self and Others

Interacting with Integrity in Thoughts and Actions

Loyal to Others

Daring to be Authentic at all times

Heartbased Solutions has educational answers for Heartbased Education, and offers resources for families, schools and communities and promotes conscious parenting, compassionate communication and non-punitive discipline.  
Dedicated to raising the global awareness of compassion and peaceful conflict resolution,  we utilize parent-teacher education, media outreach, community building  to empower parents, teachers and caregivers with tools and information about joyful parenting and a discipline model based in love.

The “Do this and you’ll get that” culture inhibits independent thinking, destroyes creativity and alianates people.  It is a fear-based system that has many detrimental side-effects.
Every day millions of children are verbally and psychologically mistreated. Yes, the  most widely recognized forms of abuse are Physical and Sexual, however at the core of all abuses is Emotional Abuse.

When adults do not heal their own wounds a vicious circle takes place. Traumatic experiences of past generations can still reverberate to future genrations. The attacks on a child's emotional well-being and sense of self-worth are often done unconsciously. The power, impact, and consequences of the use of words has been highly under-estimated. Though, not everybody realizes that. Fear for “what if…” blocks the empathic and compassionate development and much more. Continue to read

If you are curious about your child's development or behavior or simply searching for fresh ideas and solutions rather than antiquated advice, then you're in the right place!

You really can have happier, more connected, more authentic relationships without daily power struggles - no matter what age your child might have! One day you will say: I LOVE being with my teenagers!
I'd like to offer you some new alternatives, not by telling you what to do, but by awaken your own insights and resources. Your current paradigms might be shattered and I certainly will inspire you to create different relationships.

You want your child to be successful in life, in all areas, but how do you do that?!!!!

Fortunately, we've seen that when parents use the right tools, they can change their child’s problem behavior—quickly and dramatically.

 

"Carla is a wonderfully bright and shining gem in my life.  With her guidance I have reacquainted myself with a life filled with love, laughter and joy.  She holds a vast clinical, scientific and spiritual knowledge which she lovingly shares to heal and transform those willing to listen and learn.  She is authentic and articulate; a real treasure to anyone looking for personal transformation.

Many of you have heard me speak of Carla Van Walsum's workshops and how wonderful I think she is.  I met Carla via her "Happy Children, Happy Home! tm" workshops.  I really believe in the work that she's doing. She certainly helped me and my family discover (or re-discover) how to live with more love, laughter and happiness.  I can say, though, that in working with Carla, life is much more pleasant and less stressful for us now than before..."

Katie Starkey, Ft Lauderdale

"We really appreciate all your guidance and everything we learned from you, in private sessions and during the Happy Children, Happy Home! workshops. You made it really easy for us.  And I could say you changed the way I see life now.  Thank you so much!"
Venecia Alb, MA Psych.

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Say goodbye to arguing, stress and conflict and restore peace, harmony and sanity into your home! Be a Happy Parent; Your Children will be successful in life.

Here’s a look at some of the things you’ll learn:

* The 7 Daily Essentials for a Happy Family ©

* Crystal Clear Communication (NVC)

* Resolve conflicts peacefully

* Release negative patterns

* Alternatives for ‘Punishments & Rewards’

* How to deliberately create what you want

* Develop mutual respect, compassion and co-operation

* Responsible and reliable behavior

 

Sessions provide role-play, opportunities to discuss; understanding your child’s temperament,  respect,  frustration, gratitude, chores and more.

I hope that the information offered here will open you up to a new understanding of your role as parent or caregiver and provide you with the resources to create cooperative, meaningful relationships with your children and loved ones. Are you looking for new ways to relate to your children, students or anyone in your life? I invite you to take this journey with me as we shift to where we really want to be, being loving and being loved.

"Carla is a wonderfully bright and shining gem in my life.  With her guidance I have reacquainted myself with a life filled with love, laughter and joy.  She holds a vast clinical, scientific and spiritual knowledge which she lovingly shares to heal and transform those willing to listen and learn.  She is authentic and articulate; a real treasure to anyone looking for personal transformation.

Many of you have heard me speak of Carla Van Walsum's workshops and how wonderful I think she is.  I met Carla via her "Happy Children, Happy Home" workshops.  I really believe in the work that she's doing. She certainly helped me and my family discover (or re-discover) how to live with more love, laughter and happiness.  I can say, though, that in working with Carla, life is much more pleasant and less stressful for us now than before..."

Katie Starkey, Ft Lauderdale

"We really appreciate all your guidance and everything we learned from you, in private sessions and during the Happy Children, Happy Home! workshops. You made it really easy for us.  And I could say you changed the way I see life now.  Thank you so much!"
Venecia Alb, MA Psych. .

 

 

Join us: Tuesday mornings 9:30-10:30 am

Ongoing classes, starting January 8 and continues weekly 15, 22, 29 etc.

Reserve you spot and prepay for 4 sessions $60 ($15 per class) Limited seats!

15300 Jog Rd Suite 109

Delray Beach, Fl 33446

 

Any questions, contact me! 561 860-4883