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    Carla Van Walsum was trained in the Netherlands in Clinical Psychology, Holistic Therapies, and holds a Ph.D. in Transpersonal Counseling. She is the founder and owner of HeartBased Solutions, an integrative practice for individuals, couples, and families.

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