Constellations about the USA

11.11.16 Constellations USA. A few times a year I teach a 3-4 hour class in Palm Beach State College about Family and Business Constellations. Last week it was again that…

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Alicia, a Family Constellation

Alicia. Family Constellations “I love my husband” said Alicia while looking at me, her big dark eyes showing some uncertainty. “But I cannot commit myself fully. I always feel doubt,…

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Competition versus Cooperation

A  beautiful way of “doing business” is looking from the perspective of being of service, “sharing” what you have to share.. Sharing your expertise or products. Both are meant to enrich others…

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How to get your needs met without getting angry?

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If the urge to control OTHERS would be recognized as an expression of FEARful thinking, than parents could be much more happy if they communicate their wishes differently. We can never REALLY expect anybody to do something they dont want to comply with, other then using coercion/ threat which is violent.
Being punished or rewarded for every step you take takes away the natural joy and behavior of ‘just doing it’
Requesting respectfully based on compassion and awareness of each others needs creates easy compliance. The model of Crystal Clear Communication is a great tool to realize that. Not to please each other to get something out of it, but to please because it is great to do something for someone else.
The joy of the mitsvah/a good deed. Just a higher level of conscious living.

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