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January 2015 | Carla Van Walsum, Ph.D. | Holistic Psychology

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Do not take it personally! Really?  No one to blame? Is it THEIR stuff? One of the tools that contributes to personal happiness is this quote from Don Miquel Ruiz:…

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    Carla Van Walsum was trained in the Netherlands in Clinical Psychology, Holistic Therapies, and holds a Ph.D. in Transpersonal Counseling. She is the founder and owner of HeartBased Solutions, an integrative practice for individuals, couples, and families.

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    At first, it sounds a little harsh to call well-me At first, it sounds a little harsh to call well-meaning comments "Fake Positivity". Without including compassion we shut down the person we actually want to help. When positive intentions are imposed on people without that they feel they are being heard and acknowledged, we may experience a disconnection. Have you ever noticed that when people ask for your advice, you listen, you give great suggestions, and you do your best? You might even felt drained by the whole conversation. However the more you tell them what to do, the less they followed your ideas, right? That is because your advice could be helpful, but in the end, a person needs to decide what feels good to him or her. It is like a sensation that resonates within you, maybe intuition, that tells you it's the right thing to do. A sense of truth. So, to listen empathically without judgment, being a soundboard and not jumping to conclusions, is a great gift we can give to others. 🌹🤍🌹🤍🌹 This is the way Nonviolent Communication works. If you like, here's my FREE eBook: "3 Easy Tips to Be heard Effectively!" Link in bio ^ . . . ⁣ .⁣ .⁣ .⁣ .⁣ .⁣ #health #psychologyfacts #mentalhealth #psychologytoday #life #selfcare #psychologyquotes #inspiration #therapy #clinicalpsychology #positivepsychology #psychologystudent #mindfulness #psychologyclass #psychologist #psychology_health #counselingpsychology #psychotherapy #anxiety #wellness #love #selflove #quotes #motivation #mentalhealthawareness #psychologymajor #psychologysays #mentalhealthmatters #psychologystudents #psychologyfact
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