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January 2015 | Carla Van Walsum, Ph.D. | Holistic Psychology

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Do not take it personally! Really?  No one to blame? Is it THEIR stuff? One of the tools that contributes to personal happiness is this quote from Don Miquel Ruiz:…

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    Carla Van Walsum was trained in the Netherlands in Clinical Psychology, Holistic Therapies, and holds a Ph.D. in Transpersonal Counseling. She is the founder and owner of HeartBased Solutions, an integrative practice for individuals, couples, and families.

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    Ahhh...that is sooo easy to say, right? But honest Ahhh...that is sooo easy to say, right? But honestly, I think it's the best way to handle it. I know, there are many stories, interpretations, opinions out there, that are confusing. There is much we know. There is much we do NOT know.⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ We can only take care of ourselves, and others, and do the best we can.⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ Every day is a day you are alive. Make it a happy day. Be thankful we are not in a warzone, or in a living hell. So many do though!⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ It's lovely to reach out to people, who are alone, maybe lonely, and would be so excited to hear from you. It's what I try to do. Every day I'm calling someone. ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ Learn something new! To my surprise, my Connecting Communication Classes are fully booked. It's time for growth and renewal as well. That's a positive approach! ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ Life is unpredictable, and will always be!⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ That's it! ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ Sending you love and kindness! . . . . #findyourself #selfworth #selfcaretips #strongertogether #selflovery #selflove #selflovequotes #selfcareroutine #dailycalm #nourishyoursoul #selfcare #selfcarecoach #selfloveclub #selflovematters #youareenough #gratitudejournal #selfcompassion #selfimage #radicalselflove #selflovejourney #selfacceptance #mentalhealthawareness #selflover #confidencequotes #mentalhealth⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ #care #gratitudeattitude #gratitude #motivation
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