2 Constellation cases
Laura was a very successful entrepreneur. A few times she made several million dollars, lost it all, went bankrupt, but it was her positive attitude that repeatedly brought her back to success. As life went on, Laura was kept in fear that she would lose it all again and for one reason or another, couldn’t get out of that fear.
Her doctor prescribed an antidepressant, which she did not want to take. She could not sleep anymore from the stressful barriers that surrounded her. It became clear that Laura was connected to several hidden loyalties.
Hidden loyalties being the self-limiting beliefs, that kept her stuck and caused her to sabotage her greatness because she was loyal to one belief – that is, wanting to be more successful than the women in her mothers’ lineage.
Laura felt almost ashamed towards her mother and the women who came before her, and whose lives were really difficult, especially financially.
She also felt ashamed of the suffering of her family who had a long history of slavery. Having lots of money was like identifying with the “enemy”, the slaveholders. Her ancestors were poor and felt victims. Laura felt instantaneous relief facing and releasing these deeper layers in her consciousness. Two sessions with me made her back on her feet, free of the terrible fear and she still is- two years later– doing great!
Because of that perpetual fear and failures, and the negative blocks that cause others to hinder their progress, I felt it my birthright to teach men and women, how to heal and overcome subconscious beliefs and inherited patterns, that are hindering success in any possible area of life._____________________________
Again a couple, Ann and Philip, came in with a complaint that I often hear. “We love each other very much, but there’s no intimacy for 7 years. And we fight about the silliest things.” Accusations were thrown at each other. I explained that accusations do never help to get closer in understanding each other, but they rather elicit the need to defend oneself. To listen to the other person, while you are loaded with pain and disappointment yourself, is not easy, but crucial to learn. Blaming your partner for not having your needs met, isn’t working either.
When we used the footprints method it showed that Ann, the wife, stood on the place where Phillip, the husband was supposed to stand. That indicates that the balance in their marriage, the balance between masculine and feminine, was totally off. Diving deeper, we could see that Ann and Philip as well were carrying unhealed stuff AND hidden loyalties to their own family patterns. Only a few constellation sessions created the balance that actually never really was there before. They started to learn Crystal Clear Communication (Non-Violent Communication) skills which helped them to connect much better. A few months later I received a call that their bedroom was very exciting, like never before. Intimacy flourishes again…
We were blown away!
“I have known Carla, and I’ve been participating in her family constellations for about 10 years. The transformations I have seen in others has been amazing. Recently I asked Carla if we could do a constellation for my son, even though he was several states away. His dad was skeptical but agreed to join me. We were blown away by what the constellations revealed. It gave us a better insight into our sons behavior and our own. Within days we noticed a change in our son!!! We don’t really know how it worked, we are just so thankful that it did.”
Sandra T. MA Psychology, Brookline, MA