My Father and I
Are you dreading Thanksgiving or the other upcoming Holidays?
Thanksgiving and other holidays are around the corner and with them all those familiar family tensions. You might feel tense just thinking about it!
Maybe last year everyone gathered around the table and it went badly… or you couldn’t bring yourself to spend the holidays with your parents at all.
Several years in a row you were disappointed. You couldn’t be yourself. You felt the critical looks or comments that threw you off. As mature as you are, you still are caught in that grip of wanting acknowledgment from your Dad. You started the family dinner every time with the best of intentions. Collected. Grounded and positive. You just said a few affirmations, and hoped for harmony…
You long for a happier family meeting, stress-free, just fun and relaxed.
Maybe this is familiar…
- Every year you wish to feel happy at your dinner table, but then something happens and you’re suddenly at that place where you don’t want to be…
- Maybe you had an abusive childhood, and you still feel deep inside that longing for the kind of love and appreciation you didn’t get enough of.
- You know that understanding, forgiveness and compassion are helpful to heal the childhood scars, but it doesn’t heal all wounds. They so easily open up.
- Maybe you’ve lost your father, and are dealing with the complicated feelings around a holiday you used to spend together.
- Perhaps you’re on a spiritual path, positive and inspired, and you feel less aligned with the family or your Dad than ever
But what if the Holidays were actually peaceful, inside and out?
Just imagine if…
The nagging remarks don’t get to you. The twists in your stomach don’t even show up. You aren’t thinking “I wish it were over already…”
Instead of all that, you’ll think:
“Wait, why did I find this so difficult in the past?” Now, you aren’t hoping or longing for recognition. In fact, you don’t even think about it!
Actually, you thoroughly enjoyed, for the very first time, this family gathering! Is that possible?
Learn how to find peace in your relationship with your Dad
–and finally, feel stress-free and relaxed during the Holidays at the dinner table.
The package that I’ve designed contains tools and exercises to shift your perceptions, to heal scars on deeper levels, and to let go of what’s been bothering you.
Negative experiences or trauma can’t be cut out of your system. But the way you look at trauma can change entirely and cause you to definitely feel better.
I’m offering energetic healing tools that work their way deep into the psyche. The great news is that you can easily do these processes in the comfort of your own home.
Many clients have seen great results with this program!
What is it about?
The exercises I share are derived from a combination of holistic psychology, energy healing modalities and metaphysical science.
When you practice these exercises, they can help you radically change and transform the relationship with your Dad.
Why I do what I do:
I choose to not only use clinical psychology but also methods that access the deeper layers of our being. We’re not only talking about our difficulties but working toward tangible healing results.
You, yes YOU, have the innate power to make those changes!
It’s your birthright to be happy, to feel good and have a positive outlook on life.
Our life experiences, but also what is stored in our subconscious, are carried over through generations. Today, science has revealed a lot about trans-generational trauma and inherited family trauma. This relatively new field is called Epigenetics. And trauma has many faces…
We’re born not only into a family, but into a whole systemic consciousness. Simply stated, you inherit much more than you might think. Critical parenting styles are inherited. Positive, compassionate styles of communication aren’t inherited but can be learned and cultivated.
Trauma is a form of negative energy that lives in your energy field.
Negative energy can be healed – often – with positive energy.
Men and women are genetically different, although the typical roles have changed and overlapped over the years, the stereotypes still remain. Men are “supposed to be” protectors, providers, pillars of strength physically and emotionally.
Most boys were taught not to cry, and were often humiliated if they did, generally spoken, their emotions and feelings were not taken seriously. (As was with girls too).
Children should be seen, not heard, was a common opinion. Today, there is so much more consciousness about how we can raise children while being more respectful towards their needs.
The duty of fighting for your country, risking or giving up your life, has left deep scars in the family consciousness. The losses of fathers, husbands, and sons have caused deep grief and misery. But the men returning from war are often deeply hurt or damaged, and their families are impacted by what we call today PTSD.
It’s harder for men to seek help because they’ve been taught that they should be strong and solve their own problems.
Traditionally, it was not uncommon for boys to receive corporal punishment from their fathers. Spiraled abuse does not typically create lovely, sensitive men.
Being abandoned by a dad is another situation that leaves deep scars. It can cause bondings issues with partners, or one’s future children.
The simple truth is that what we experience, defines us. How we deal with it, (if we choose to look inwardly and search for healing,) will define us in the future and it will be reflected in our family relationships.
To be the child of a father who hasn’t been able to overcome his hurdles, can cause a lot of pain and alienation in relationships. Even worse, spiraling waves of violence through generations can still cause closed heartedness, aloofness we witness today.
Yet, deep down, everyone yearns for a warm relationship with their dad.
There is only one way to get to a better place, and that is through emotional healing work, reflection, energetic exercises, forgiveness, and at the end, leading to acceptance.
So, if you recognize yourself in these words, I would be very happy if you try my exercises. This has helped so many. The planet needs healing. It begins with us. One at the time.
So, are you ready to:
Feel relaxed during the holidays, and enjoy more fully the family you have?
Let go of the desire to change your Dad and change your perceptions toward her, and soften the hard edges of sharp pain?
Free yourself from feelings that grow under your skin, the stress you feel when you think about the Holidays table?
Be open to experience several modalities that guide you through healing processes?
You will receive:
- 5 audio pieces of training/exercises delivered as MP3s that you download to your phone or desktop and listen to any time at your convenience.
- Guided meditations, imageries, exercises,mini-constellations, and rituals that will help you release hindering patterns. They’ll help your heart to open receive more love for yourself. You’ll feel more compassion for everyone involved and will experience more inner calm and peace.
- A Personal 90-minute breakthrough session via your computer to integrate your experiences, live with me.
- Email support to answer questions, and to celebrate the positive results.
- PLUS, my BONUS! Inherited Family Trauma mp3 (with complete package)